Frequently Asked Questions

What is the point of launching another dating website when there are so many?

chivalryisntdead is ready to be in the business of bringing together students from different schools and campuses worldwide that may not have the opportunity otherwise to meet or date. We say worldwide because we want everyone from all walks of life to converge on this site. We want to be the safest, most private, and most beautifully designed dating site in the world. We think there are good reasons why some people do not want to try online college dating sites-they’re boring! We want you to come, have fun, hook up, and meet new exciting people that you may not otherwise have had the opportunity to meet.

Are you going to SPAM me with ads?

No, we don’t have ads on the site because we believe it disrupts the user experience. We will only introduce ads if we don’t have any other way to pay our bills.

Who can join the website?

 Any student may join chivalryisntdead who can be authenticated via his/her school e-mail. We restrict our services to students because some kind of authentication is necessary to improve the online dating experience. Since only students can join, there won’t be any weirdo’s, UNSOLICITED MAIL, SCAMS or bogus profiles. We know there is a trade-off between the quantity of profiles and their quality. All of those other sites go for quantity. We strive for quality.

Is this another Facebook?

Ahhhhh, no.  In fact it’s the opposite of Facebook, since users have the option to exclude anyone they know. Now…if you want to date someone you know, we recommend you call him/her on the phone…On the other hand, coming to our site will give you plenty of opportunities to date people you wouldn’t have the chance to meet otherwise.  This is what makes us different. We do not want to just limit your experience to just local college campuses, but all around the world.

What is all that fuss about privacy, safety, security, etc.?

We believe the reasons behind most people not trying online dating sites revolves around privacy, safety, the amount of JUNK MAIL, SCAM, fake profiles, etc. Online dating just isn’t the same anymore… Therefore we put privacy at the focus of whatever we do. We want to earn your trust, so that you can trust your date, have a safe fun time and maybe even put in a good word for us with your peers (hint-hint).

Why would you be any better than other existing dating sites?

There are three main reasons:

1. Safety: we  strive to be the safest meeting and dating site currently available, since we require strict authentication for instance through school  e-mail addresses. It’s almost impossible to trick the system, since 1 email = 1 user

2. Privacy: We not only talk about privacy, but have made it quite clear in our choices that we won’t compromise on this. The most obvious example is that we have restricted membership to students and even members cannot access just any profile. While it is a misconception that the value of an online dating site lies in its number of profiles, we think privacy is more important.

3. Desirability: It’s our goal and hope that you will meet people with the same education level, same age, same ambition, etc. We will work hard to make sure that there are no fake profiles. Flirt, have fun, share or even better-find your partner for life. We get that you have less time for these things during school…trust…we totally get it.

Who are you guys?

 We are comprised of a little of everything. We’ve got some tech geeks, a few hot guys, and some sexy gals all looking to play match maker…what could possibly go wrong?! No seriously, we are a group of creative folks who want people to hook up, fall in love, gain new friends, and just enjoy the good things in life. We enjoy finding new, crazy, innovative ways to engage people and improve interaction between college students. We believe that if the world would just incorporate more love into their routines, life would be a whole hell of a lot easier. We live off of the philosophy of Love.  It was John Lennon who said: “If someone thinks that peace and love are just a cliché that must have been left behind in the 60s, that’s a problem. Peace and love are eternal.”― John Lennon.

So hey, join us in spreading that love and find the love you’ve been waiting for! But we are not hippies…not that there is anything wrong with hippies…a

How does chivalryisntdead match people?

The matching system is based on your profile, so the more details you provide the better matches you are going to have. Depending on how big your university or college is, you probably just need to search in hopes that the more information you divulge, the better your chances in finding your ideal match.

What is chivalryisntdead?

chivalryisntdead is the name of the website that is owned by chivalryisntdead and its subsidiaries, which is what makes up our company. We thought chivalryisntdead would sound more fun, flirty and less uninviting or dismal…although we will put on our game faces when we have to talk to lawyers, the government, etc…they may not take us seriously with a fun flirty name like that.

Safety awareness notification

There is no substitute for acting with caution when communicating with any unfamiliar person who wants to meet you.

Never include private information about yourself while interacting online with someone you do not know. That includes not giving out: your last name, e-mail address, home address, phone number, place of work, or any other identifying information in your internet profile or initial e-mail messages. Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal or financial information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it. If this happens, please drop us a line so we can rid chivalryisntdead of the scum.

If you choose to have a face-to-face meeting with another member, always tell someone in your family or a friend where you are going and when you will return. Provide a destination, name of person in whom you are leaving with, and where you have met them. Never agree to be picked up at your home. If you choose to travel to meet with someone, meet in a crowded place. Always provide your own transportation to and from your date and meet in a public place with many people around. If it doesn’t feel right, do not go through with it.

Please remember that this is simply a dating site which has high hopes of bringing together students from different schools that haven’t had the opportunity so far to meet or date. We strive to be the safest, most private, and most beautifully designed dating site in the world. Help us in doing this by keeping things: fun, flirty, safe, and by just enjoying socializing with your peers.



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